Some people today actually ask themselves whether they should have children. Probably none of your ancestors ever asked such a question that would be as absurd to them as 'Should I eat?' If one even asks this question, she is already on a bad path, but she can be redirected.
Those who control our society steer us to a comfortable and fun extinction. If you watch movies or TV, which I don't recommend, notice how you almost never see any babies or children, and when you do, they are depicted as nuisances. We are told to live for ourselves and make the most of our lives without consideration for the future of our family and people. Judge every message, value, and system in our lives with this question to start awakening to what they are doing to us: Does this encourage having children and building strong family?
It took a couple generations of dedicated programming to make people go against their prime biological imperative. The good news is that destructive programming can be easily broken. One on one conversations with young people you know can be the most effective way of breaking this.
Build trust and rapport with the young one. Learn where she is in her thinking. Move her in the right direction, either subtly or by whatever means you know will be most effective. You could keep asking her when she plans to have her first child to put it in her head.
Worldview
Our ancestors revered and worshiped their ancestors. We owe everything to our ancestors who produced us and the civilization we live in. Our responsibility to them is to continue our family. You are nothing but a link from your family's past to its future. Research your family history with https://familysearch.org and whatever your family has documented or can tell you to gain the appreciation of what they sacrificed for you.
Vision of your own future
We are pounded with imagery of living carefree lives without children, but we often don't envision what later life will be like if we live this way. You can help show young people the empty miserable life that awaits them without children.
- A young woman will enjoy much attention from men while she is young and fertile, but when her fertility window ends, it will abruptly stop. She will then have a lonely life with cats if she failed to create a family. She becomes an old maid or crazy cat lady.
- Older women's greatest joy in life is being with their grandchildren. Her children will care for her as she ages. The alternative is dying sad alone in a rest home.
- Show her imagery of happy families and women with their children such as your family albums.
